Aug 12 09

I think it’s interesting when people, especially pro athletes, say that they “gave 100%”  (or sometimes 110% :)) on whatever it was that they were doing.  In reality, I think we tend to give more like 90% — on a good day.  That doesn’t mean we’re lazy or we don’t try hard, but I think God has given us so much more than we even know.

Nowhere is that more evident than in the childrens’ hospitals…among the kids AND their families.  When we were in the hospital, people would often say to me things like “I don’t know how you do it” or “Boy, Andrew is really tough”.  And, I appreciated their comments as the compliments that they were intended.  But, from the family perspective, what was our choice?  There wasn’t one…you have to ‘be there’ - in every sense - for your child.  And, the McDonoughs are not alone.  I have been privileged to meet so many incredible families and kids (kids fighting cancer and their siblings fighting their own battles).  You don’t know how much you have in you until you need to tap that inner strength.  I knew Andrew was tough, but even I was surprised by his courage, tenacity, and faith. 

I used to ask the nurses at AI “how can you work with sick children?”  And, they told me that they wouldn’t have it any other way.  They said that children are much better patients than adults.  And, over time, I came to understand what they meant.  Children don’t define themselves by the cancer…they are not “victims”, they are KIDS….kids who happen to have cancer.  And, these kids know how to tap into that previously untapped 10% that “normal” people don’t use to be the extraordinary people that they are.

Just think how much of a difference we could make in the world if we each tapped into that other 10%!!!

Live Like Andrew - make a difference!

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Ali’s & Andrew’s Dad

P.S.   Sounds like Ali is having a good time at “Kay’s Kamp”, the pediatric oncology camp where she is volunteering this week.  They sure picked a hot week!  I’m so proud of Ali for doing this.

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